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Working for the Weekend at Secrets: Part 1 | Episode 264 The Swing Nation is headed back to Secrets! In Part 1 of Dan and Lacy’s recap of the Secrets “Working for the Weekend” Takeover, they’re breaking down the first…
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Read MoreDaphne’s birthday surprise sent us racing back to our room at Secrets. We recap the late-night scramble, new-partner nerves, and hosting duties in Episode 264.
Read MoreDebrief after a swingers party with a gentle check-in: share what felt good, name boundaries, and agree on what you both want before planning your next night.
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