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Jealousy Isn’t the Enemy with Ally Iseman | Episode 263 Jealousy is one of those emotions almost everyone experiences—but in the lifestyle, it can feel like something you’re supposed to have already “figured out.” In this episode of The Swing…
A couple-first guide to curiosity, communication, and community, plus new episodes, event drops, and everything else we're working on. No spam — just the good stuff.
Seattle expands CNM protections, a study challenges sexual-health assumptions, and Blackpool’s Club Play faces a licence dispute. Our take on all three stories.
Read MoreAlly Iseman joins Dan and Lacy to unpack four types of jealousy, the difference from envy, and how to ask for support without blame in an open relationship.
Read MoreA Secrets Hideaway day or night pass is your way into the sold-out September 17–20 weekend. Plan your visit, outfit and boundaries at your own pace.
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