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How to Bring Up Swinging With Your Partner Gently
Bring up swinging with a calm, honest conversation. Share your curiosity, listen without pressure, and agree on boundaries before deciding what comes next.
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The latest from Dan & Lacy.
Recaps, interviews, behind-the-scenes stories, and everything we couldn't fit into the podcast.
Does Her Dom Fantasy Mean You’re Not Enough? | TT 128
A domination fantasy does not mean a partner is inadequate. In TT 128, Dan and Lacy discuss jealousy, reassurance and exploring together at a comfortable…
Read MoreAdam22, Lena The Plug & Open Relationships — Our Take
Adam22 and Lena The Plug’s open-relationship comments raise questions about agreements, new partners and co-parenting. Our take puts consent before labels.
Read MoreUnicorn Hunt Study, Seattle CNM & Beyond Monogamy
A unicorn-hunt study raises questions about care for newcomers, while Seattle CNM coverage and Beyond Monogamy put respect and visibility in the spotlight.
Read MoreDaphne’s Birthday Surprise at Secrets | Episode 264
Daphne’s birthday surprise sent us racing back to our room at Secrets. We recap the late-night scramble, new-partner nerves, and hosting duties in Episode 264.
Read MoreHow to Debrief After a Swingers Party as a Couple
Debrief after a swingers party with a gentle check-in: share what felt good, name boundaries, and agree on what you both want before planning your…
Read MoreWhy Book With a Hosted Group? | Tuesday Talks 127
Why book with a hosted group instead of the resort? Dan and Lacy explain party costs, group perks and fair expectations in this Tuesday Talks…
Read MoreKandi Burruss, Todd Tucker & Privacy — Our Take
Kandi Burruss’s response to Todd Tucker raises a vital point: consent to intimacy is not consent to publicity. Our take on privacy, trust and moving…
Read MoreSeattle CNM Rights, Health Study & Blackpool Club Play
Seattle expands CNM protections, a study challenges sexual-health assumptions, and Blackpool’s Club Play faces a licence dispute. Our take on all three stories.
Read MoreJealousy Isn’t the Enemy with Ally Iseman | Episode 263
Ally Iseman joins Dan and Lacy to unpack four types of jealousy, the difference from envy, and how to ask for support without blame in…
Read MoreWhat to Expect on a Secrets Hideaway Day Pass This Weekend
A Secrets Hideaway day or night pass is your way into the sold-out September 17–20 weekend. Plan your visit, outfit and boundaries at your own…
Read MoreIs Being Loud in the Playroom Okay? | Tuesday Talks 126
Being loud in a playroom is not automatically bad etiquette. Dan and Lacy unpack attention, privacy, and disruptive chatter in this week’s Tuesday Talks 126.
Read MoreWhat to Expect at Electric Pleasures Chattanooga 2026
Electric Pleasures Chattanooga is a music-first Halloween hotel takeover Oct 16–18, 2026. Here’s the Friday-to-Sunday rhythm, pool days, nights, and booking path.
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