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Women Choosing Non-Monogamy — Our Take
Mainstream media is finally admitting women choose non-monogamy too. Our take: that is not a threat to relationships — it is a threat to lazy relationships.
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Non-Monogamy in the News: Week of May 15, 2026
A quick-hit Friday digest of mainstream non-monogamy, polyamory, swinging, ENM, and lifestyle culture coverage from the week.
Read MoreBliss Cruise Part 2: From Bad Excursions to Backdoor Adventures
Bliss Cruise Part 2: From Bad Excursions to Backdoor Adventures | Episode 244 Hey there, pineapple people — Dan and Lacy are back with Part…
Read MoreNon-Monogamy Is Getting More Visible. Let’s Keep It Ethical.
Every now and then the mainstream world looks over at non-monogamy and acts shocked that we have been over here the whole time building real…
Read MoreTuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Community and Events
Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Community and Events | Episode 108 Hey there, pineapple people. In this Tuesday Talks episode, Dan and Lacy answer a…
Read MoreWomen Choosing Open Marriage — Our Take
The Guardian put women’s agency at the center of open marriage. Our take: non-monogamy does not shortcut the work — it spotlights it.
Read MoreNon-Monogamy in the News: Week of May 8, 2026
A quick-hit Friday digest of mainstream non-monogamy, polyamory, swinging, ENM, and lifestyle culture coverage from the week.
Read MoreBliss Cruise Part 1: Networking and Naughty Nights | Episode 243
🎧 New Episode Alert! Bliss Cruise Part 1: Networking and Naughty Nights | Episode 243 Join Dan and Lacy for Part 1 of their wildest…
Read MoreA Little Kindness Costs Nothing: Lifestyle Etiquette When the Vibes Aren’t Mutual
Real talk, pineapple fam: consent is bigger than what happens behind a closed door. It includes kindness, honesty, and not turning people into props in…
Read MorePolyamory Protections Are in the News — Here’s What Swingers Should Take From It
Cities are starting to protect polyamorous and multipartnered households. Here is what that cultural shift means for swingers and ENM couples.
Read MoreENM Isn’t a Hall Pass: How Lifestyle Couples Can Spot Consent Gaps Before They Blow Up
Real talk, pineapple friends: ethical non-monogamy only works when everyone who needs to know actually knows. Here’s how lifestyle couples can protect consent, trust, and…
Read MoreTuesday Talks: Shots, Safety and STI Risks
Tuesday Talks: Shots, Safety and STI Risks | Episode 107 Hello Pineapple friends — this Tuesday Talk gets into one of those real-life lifestyle questions…
Read MoreNon-Monogamy in the News: Week of May 1, 2026
A quick-hit roundup of mainstream non-monogamy, polyamory, swinging, and ENM media coverage for the week.
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